Being Savvy By Staying Safe
Hello there Ladies! Being that we live in a crazy world, sometimes good crazy and sometimes bad crazy, I felt it necessary to give you some tips on how to exercise a little bit of caution when you begin dating someone. I certainly don’t want to scare you or have you paranoid thinking that your date resembles Christian Bale in AMERICAN PSYCHO, but the more aware you are, the more safe and secure you’ll feel facing the dating world.
Now, I know you gorgeous ladies will sometimes be picked up by men while you are out and about and have no reference point and no mutual friends. Sometimes your date is literally someone who picked you up at the bar, the grocery store, or any number of random places. Although I highly encourage venturing out in this way, I think it is essential that you meet your date in a public place rather than having him pick you up, meet at his place, or something private in nature. The same goes for the end of the date, be sure to make your own travel arrangements for a first date. Next, be certain to tell a friend where you are meeting your date, their name and number if you have it. If possible, call your friend during the date to let them know that everything is going great. Also, in a date situation, your natural intuition is key. If you don’t feel comfortable or if something just doesn’t feel right to you, you are entitled to excuse yourself politely. After all, your instincts have gotten you this far, be sure to trust them.
I know you ladies are incredibly intelligent, so this serves simply as a reminder to be smart when meeting new men. As you get to know this lucky gentleman, decide for yourself what feels right and what your boundaries are. At the end of the day, this person is a stranger, and attractive women like you can’t take chances on a stranger, even a very cute stranger.