On the Street with Mike!
Hello Ladies!
Have I got a treat for you! While out on the town recently, I spotted this hot single New Yorker named Mike who is a filmmaker and an all-around creative type. He gave me a little insight into the male mind. Here are a few questions I asked him, check out what this cutie had to say!
Juliette: Mike, there are so many smart and sexy single women in this city of actresses, businesswomen and models. For you, what qualities make a woman stand out in the crowd?
Mike: I look for a woman who has a similar sense of humor, is intelligent, supportive, challenging, open-minded, non-judgmental, creative, passionate, good-smelling. She has to be able to make me laugh, whether it’s intentional or not. Someone who is physically taking care of themselves is important; exercising and eating reasonably well. Oh yeah, I almost forgot. Being a good cook is a huuuge plus!
Juliette: Wow! That is quite a list, but I have to say, those are all very good attributes to look for. You really seem to have a clear idea of what you want, but what about what you don’t want? What is a turn-off for you when it comes to the Ladies?
Mike: A major turn-off in women is someone who doesn’t listen. I’m not talking about taking orders. If I’m speaking to someone and they are not giving me their full attention. That really turns me off.
Juliette: I’m sorry what did you say? My attention was elsewhere. Just kidding! You have my FULL attention:-) No, seriously, you are totally right! I think that goes both ways. Being a good listener is so important for both men and women. You want to feel like the person genuinely cares about who you are and what you have to say, even if it’s a simple summary of your day. So, let’s say you find this sweet-smelling woman who listens intently and cooks a phenomenal meal, what is your ideal date scenario?
Mike: My idea of a perfect date is just making a connection with the person. It doesn’t matter too much where it is. Going out to dinner is a great date for me. I was just recently watching this impressive stage show. It was hilarious! The unexpected hilarity factor would make a great date.
September 19th, 2008 at 10:07 am
This is for Mike,
I am interested in the same things from a man. It is important to me to laugh and be crazy (not too crazy). I know because of my own personality. In order for me to be interested and be open to fall in love again, he needs to make me laugh. Also, I tend to be a better listener than talker. So, by the time I want to talk, he is so used to doing all the talking that he doesn’t lisen ! I guess I need to speak up more. I like a conversation to flow easily and not want the evening to end because there’s so much to talk about and we just want to be with him. I am happy being single but it would be nice to have a companion that I can do things with. Of course, like you he needs to take care of himself in body, mind and soul (spirituality). Having him connected with God is important to me because I know where his standards are built and that he wants to grow and become a better man. Something like a bar to reach up to. It’s tough out there to find the match. But I’m living my life and allowing God to take care of it. This gives me peace.