Okay, so we’re all familiar with the SEX AND THE CITY episode where Jack Berger dumps Carrie on a post-it note. What a jerk!! We all shrieked in horror at his insensitivity. Well, from my discussions with various people out there in the dating world, I compiled a list of the worst ways to dump or be dumped. Let’s all learn a little something from other people’s heartbreak shall we.

1. Over the phone
2. During an AIM conversation
3. In an email
4. Leaving a myspace or facebook message
5. Via text message
6. Reading about it on his/her blog
7. Having a friend do it
8. In the middle of a date in a public date
9. Ignoring the other person until they “get the hint”
10. Getting the news right after being physically intimate

Whewww! That was rough. Yes, the world of technology is wonderful and always advancing, but don’t use modern conveniences to keep from doing the right thing. Word to the wise, if you are dating someone and it just isn’t working anymore, be sure your breakup approach doesn’t resemble anything from my list. Your best bet, take the person somewhere private, schedule enough time to talk through things thoroughly IN PERSON, and make sure you have already thought through what you will say so that you are sensitive yet direct. And if you are the person receiving the bad news, don’t take it as a step backward. Look at it like this, that’s just one less person standing in the way of you and your soul-mate!

I met Jornel, a cute bouncer at Rare View, an amazing rooftop bar, and asked him some questions about dating while I was waiting on line for the elevator. Here’s what he had to say about dating and relationships.

Juliette’s Question: What is the best way to break it off with someone?
Jornel’s Answer: The truth, just tell the truth.

Juliette’s Question: What is the best way to impress the family?
Jornel’s Answer: The best way to impress the parents and family is to give 100% attention to your significant other. Giving her attention shows that you care for her, and when family see that, they are impressed.

Hello there Ladies!

I recently met a beautiful young New Yorker named Liane who had a great deal to say about her current romantic relationship. Watch this video and see what she has to say about turning a 3 year friendship into a steamy romance! Maybe she’ll get you to start thinking about your best guy friend in a more intimate way;-) Check out her tips on how to keep your man coming back for more even you think you already know each other inside and out…

Hello Ladies!

It’s the event far more feared than going to the dentist, even more dreaded than public speaking, and exceedingly more terrifying than interviewing for a high-profile job…drum roll please…it’s MEETING THE PARENTS! Cast your fears aside my pretties. With my advice, the only scary thing about this first encounter will be how much his parents adore you.

Now, there are very few activities that everyone agrees upon, but consuming great desserts, that’s a universal people pleaser. So, if you enjoy baking, bring the parents some homemade cookies, pie, and the like. This may seem a little old fashioned, but I guarantee you that your newest career achievements will sound so much more impressive over a dish of crème Brule. If you’re not the Martha Stuart type, just go to your local bakery or patisserie and pick out some tasty items. No need to douse yourself in flour and pawn these goodies off as your own, the parents will still swoon at your thoughtfulness.

Next, dress modestly. I’m not saying wear a sweater buttoned up to your chin or drown yourself in a floor length skirt, but consider who your viewing audience is. These are the people entrusting their son in your care, they want to know you are one classy woman. So be yourself, but be respectful. Parents feel honored when they can see that you dressed up for the occasion. Again, maybe it seems old fashioned, but elegance is timeless.

Finally, relax. I know it can be scary, but the last thing you want to do is treat this encounter like an interrogation and clam up at every question. Know that you are a catch, and confidently engage in conversation accordingly. Be sure to ask all about who they are. Trust me, you want to know what’s on their minds, after all, they are the ones who raised the man who holds your hand. So, just put my advice into action, and you’ll make a frighteningly good first impression!